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How to Trust the Process


(original post published in 2018)

Writers are often told that the best piece of writing advice is to write what you know, or build your platform . . . or anything related to writing that we strive to make better in our lives. However, the best piece of writing advice I have ever been told resonated with me in such a way that changed my thinking about my writing journey.

Trust the process.

That was the advice, plain and simple.

So many times we get caught up in our writing friends’ successes, how many books they have published, seeing how perfect their worlds seem that are so unlike our own clumsy path we’re trying to follow. And that’s discouraging. I’ve been there a time or two. When I started on the path to finding an agent, I was completely overwhelmed. What if I didn’t have enough “platform” numbers? What if my writing wasn’t good enough? What if no one would like what I wrote?

But I reached out to agents anyway and pitched my story to them. Some agents liked my story but it wasn’t a good fit for them. Other agents loved my story and wanted to work with me. Oh, now, that was exciting!

Then, just like getting a large papercut, I received some disheartening news. My platform wasn’t large enough. However, not to be discouraged, the agent encouraged me to do several things, and one of those things was to get a mentor. Now, I know what you might be thinking. Asking someone to be my mentor is super intimidating. But let me put you at ease. Even Stephen King and Francine Rivers had to start at the bottom, just like you and me. And writers are always helping other writers; that’s how we grow. So, asking an author you admire, who is further down the publishing path than you, to mentor you along is the best thing you could ever do.

I did that, and my mentor told me to trust the process, because I wasn’t sure how my platform would shape up. And for the past year, I have been (trying, praying to) trusting the process as I continue doing what works for me, whether it be writing blog posts, interviewing authors, sharing research information, or encouraging up-and-coming writers, because I know that if I continue to keep my pen sharp, my heart open, and my eyes on God, that this entire process of getting published will be well worth the journey.

God’s given you a process that only works for you, and no matter what your other writer friends are doing, He will never fail you.

Let’s Chat! I’d love to hear from you in the comments~

How have you seen your own writing journey blossom this year?

8 thoughts on “How to Trust the Process

  1. Love this article, Tish! And great advice on trusting the process. Building a platform takes a lot of patience and time. We all just have to keep on “keeping on” when it comes to writing.

    1. Thanks for the comment, Jack! Indeed, platform is a constant process. All the best in your writing!

  2. Yup. Three impactful words. It is difficult to do, but the reality is, the process is there for a reason, even if we do not like it, or do not understand it.

    How did you select, contact, and persuade your mentor to be your mentor?

    1. Hi Damon, I like the simplicity of your words. As for securing a mentor, perhaps that’s a blog post I’ll write and share in the near future! In short, however, I simply asked. 🙂 But—thanks for the blog post idea, I’ll definitely share some tips for getting a mentor in a future blog post.

  3. This year I became a published author of a children’s book. Licky the Lizard. 🙂 I continue to write Christian fiction stories and non-fiction. Amazing year.

    1. Congratulations, Mimi!! Love the title, by the way! That first book is always special. Many blessings to you for the rest of this year as you continue on this wonderful writing and publishing process.

  4. Thank you for the encouragement, Tisha. If you can do it, I can too, Right? You have to start somewhere.

    1. Wise words, kswildcat! Platform is so important, and yes, it takes one step at a time. Glad it was an encouragement to you!

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